This last class we had in Family Relations was a lot about the first few months of marriage. One critical thing is to TALK! Couples typically don't voice their feelings about the way the other acts or even as Brother Williams' situation witht he mail. His wife had opened his mail and this was very shocking considering how he was raised to never do such a thing. Holiday plans, specifically whose family to visit, need to be discussed. Each person grew up with different habits and traditions. This is a time to pick ones you'd like for your own family.